Children Should Not Die!

In recent day, there are more child murders, child abduction and child rape in Turkey and so public have a jerky process. In recent months, barbarous child murders and child rapes hurt deeply not only their own families and also break all people’ hearts. These events cause concern. Turkish Sexual Health Institute (CİSED) sex therapists answer this question of “Why do the numbers of children increase that are kidnapped, raped and found the lifeless bodies?” and advise families of “educate your children instead of fear.”

EDUCATION OF PARENTS AND PARTNERS SHOULD BE LEGAL OBLIGATION BEFORE MARRIAGE…

CISED General President Sexual Therapist Specialist Cem Keçe says; “The most important thing is that children, are our future guarantee, are physically and mentally unscathed prepared for life. Originally, public institutions and organizations, the media and civil society organizations, all people should be educated and taught ways of caution for little children who are playing games outside. Moreover, education of parents and partners should be legal obligation before marriage. Memorization of ‘Education must be!’ is rather repeated, public authorities should conclude informative work on the finalization which lessons can be added against the kidnapping of little children in the school curriculum. Furthermore, there should be some informative programs for parents such as parents’ attitudes and behaviors towards their children. Finally, it is most important that these cautions are implemented rapidly”.

PENALTIES NEED TO BE INCREASED AGAINST CHILDREN CRIMES…

Dr. Keçe continues; “Crimes against children should be very strict sanctions. Especially, more safely and under controlled environmental arrangements should be done in order to prevent child abuse and shaken confidence against the law should be provided again. Some crimes such as child murders, child abduction, and child rape est. should be given severe punishments but increase of punishment is not only solution and also advice families of ‘educate your children instead of fear.’

THE MEASURE OF “A PASAWORD” AGAINST CHILD ABDUCTION…

Dr. Keçe continues; “You can protect your little children against perverse and malicious adults… One day, a man comes near to a boy is eight years old and he tells about there are some setback, boy’s mother want man to take him so he should come with a man. Then, boy says that ‘Well, you say the password, if you do not say it, I can not come with you!’ When man hears it, go far away. Because his mother has talked with child and they have created a password. His mother says to him if someone does not tell the password, he should not go with any people. Perhaps, this small detail can save a life. Therefore, families should talk with their children and they should create a PASSWORD”.

CHILDREN SHOULD BE EDUCATED…

Dr. Keçe says; “Children should not die and be killed, they should not be thrown into the fire like butterflies, bad hands should not touch children own bodies and souls, and they are our future. Especially, children should not be alone outside, families should talk with them to have hands-off attitude against unknown people and familiar people. Moreover, families should caution them not to go to other places with anyone outside. Furthermore, families should tell them if anybody acts such as hug, kiss, love, caressing her/his hair, arms up, holding hands etc. without your permission, they must say “No!” and if anybody continues to act them, they must want other people to help”.