CİSED Explains The Four Horsemen of The Apocalypse In Sexuality…

The beginning of the most beautiful enjoy in the world is sexual intercourse. Sexuality, which discourages to couples and is perceived as taboo today, is not an examination, a black cloud or a nightmares.  Cinsel Sağlık Enstitüsü Derneği (CİSED - www.cised.org.tr) tarafından seks yapmak; rahatlamış ve gevşemiş bir halde, sevişmenin ve dokunmanın verdiği hazza odaklanarak, haz alıp haz verebilme, ruhu ve bedeni paylaşabilme, ne olursa olsun bir şekilde boşalabilme bilim ve sanatıolarak tarif ediliyor. Therefore, sex is like nutrition and need to rest. When hormones act, sex is a very special and beautiful shape that people have to live. Therefore, people need to understand how the social judgment, which is known correct but is really false, is in contradiction with scientific data. Thence, it is more important that sexuality should discover from right sources and people get pleasure from each frame of this discovery… (1) exaggeration, (2) fear, (3) try to live without knowledge and (4) perceive like a task which affect negatively both individuals and couple’s relationship, are explained “THE FOUR HORSEMEN OF THE APOCALYPSE IN SEXUALITY” by Dr. Keçe. Here is stunning titles…

WE EXAGGERATE …

CISED General President Sexual Therapist Specialist Cem Keçe says; “Sexuality, which is the most special and beautiful of different types of communication, is known as a highly mysterious and sensual activity by reason of having special feeling. There is a private person, a special place and a special time in order that person can live this unique beauty with full of desire and peacefully which remove person on the rosy clouds. It is more important that sexuality is perceived correctly in order that person or couple can take pleasure in making out and sexual desire can be lived enough which arises from the effects of the hormones. However, exaggerated sexuality can cause many of negative situations such as sexual dysfunction, lack of self-confidence, communication disorders with partner and psychological pressure. Consequently, sexual mythos such as ‘Men have sex every day!’, ‘Men are always ready to have sex!’, ‘Person needs to have sex fifteen times in car and five times at home!’, ‘Man’s penis size is very important for sexuality’ which reflect fears and concerns about sexuality, are not more than exaggerated rhetoric. Therefore, we recommend that sexuality is ‘AN AMUSING PART OF LIFE’ instead of ‘EXAGGERATION’.”

WE FRIGHTEN…

CİSED General Vice President Specialist Yasemin Yıldız says; “Sexuality continues to be a major nightmare that person’s mind and soul are not taken place, is perceived an act of which trapped in a body. However, if men and women want to have sex, the basis of sex should have sense of love, compassion, loyalty. Especially women want to feel romance by the creations of women… Couples should not be afraid in order to detect each other correctly. People know that fear is an uncomfortable and negative feeling. When person runs a risk, he/she is afraid and so person can constitute a response to escape or person can freeze up. Therefore, ‘Make sex, you die!’ or ‘Your vagina can be bleeding in stream during the first night with your partner!’ are an empire of fear but actually couples should think that sex is to take pleasure and be relaxation because it is like Gothe; ‘The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.’”

WE DO NOT KNOW…

CİSED Secretary-General Sexual Therapist Psy. Serap Güngör says; “Sexual intercourse must be a human in other words; it must be a woman and a man before being a couple… therefore, sexuality, lovemaking, learning sexuality, teaching and discovering sexuality are irrefutable facts… However, if sexuality is seen an ordinary, partner is seen a sexual object or relationships and marriages are seen an necessary institution to fulfill some sexual desires, they would be incorrect because sexuality is different from person to person so it is a pleasurable secret… This secret can be discovered mutually. Sexuality is learned by experience, touching, feeling and seeing as person learn to drive a car. At the beginning of the major causes of sexual myths such as ‘Women are only discharge with vaginal!’ or ‘Penis is erected in order that man wants!’ are that couples do not talk openly about sexuality issues. Therefore, people should curiously discover to sexuality instead of trying to live sexuality lack of intellectual.”

WE THINK SEXUALITY IS A TASK…

CISED General President Sexual Therapist Specialist Cem Keçe says; “Feeding, drinking water and taking a breath are necessary for life; lovemaking has to be necessary for couple relationship. Therefore, love making and sex should not be perceived a task. Being the ability to remain yourself when you become a united whole other person is a secret which sexual passion can be continuing in long-term relationship. Because sexuality does not only mean that couples have a baby, ejaculate or an action for partner. Sexual myths of ‘Man’s task is woman’s orgasm!’, ‘If I do not have sex with my partner, my husband can cheat on me!’ or ‘Sex can be done for having a baby!’ are forgotten and sexuality should be shared as a gift for mental and physical.”