WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU ARE HAPPY WITH SPIRIT TWIN?

CİSED HONORARY PRESİDENT DR. CEM KEÇE: " YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE ON TENTERHOOKS LITTLE!"

Unlike the laws of physics of "Opposite people attract each other!", the spirit twin means two souls that are part of the same essence and a strong relation between so finding an ambition spirit twin is a search that begins since the years of youth. Almost everyone says to hope to find the spirit twin who understands him/herself better. Some people, who advocate finding a spirit twin, take a decision leaving each other to end of excited in marriage. Is it amazing, isn't it? İf that is so why do these people quarrel with "Excitement finished!" in marriage despite couple always speak the same language, have the same mentality and a subject of misunderstanding is not discussed? Cinsel Sağlık Enstitü Derneği (CİSED) sex therapists search the answer of this question for you…

WHAT IS THE SECRET OF HAPPY RELATION?

CİSED Onursal Başkanı Dr. Cem Keçe says;"Many happy, successful and long-lasting relationships can establish relations with opposite people. If person finds identical with him/herself, it can be usually impossible to be happier. The right relation is that people live together who complement each other with feelings and fears. If there are patience, loyalty, unconditional love, intimacy, passion and respect in relationships or marriages, there must be happy relations and health sex live. The password of continuation of sexual passion in long-term relationships is the ability of being yourselfwhen you can emotionally integrate with the opposite sex. 6 main substance of self-development are ' open communication, giving up power battles, touching to partner, taking responsibility instead of blaming and do not fear from anxieties '. Otherwise, couples can have lived 'a sleep period' that is boring, monotonous, without passion and adrenaline I the second month of marriage yet".

YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE ON TENTERHOOKS LITTLE!

CİSED President of the General Psychiatry Specialist Asst. Dr. Cebrail Kısa says; "You think that there are proverbs suck as 'Why the greatest love starts with fighting?' or ' Why opposite people attract each other?'. In question is that person has a soft spot for unknown thing. People look for a magical mystery to the opposite sex and words is, that hold them together, 'curiosity', 'concern', 'mystery', 'desire' and 'passion'. Mystery is marriage and natural laws and it also combines 'desire and passion' which are cause sine qua non sexual life" and Dr. KISA continue, "There are always and everywhere indispensable. If one is not, the other can be meaningless. In other world, everything is uniform. Couple is powerful in order to struggle with risks such as misunderstanding, frustration, conflict, rejection or loss. Therefore, person can hold on what dimension he/she tolerate the intensity of relation, he/she can be equally well. This dimension is a main dynamic which conditions how couple has a sexual life. Although people look for spirit twin by instinct after Adam and Eve, your heart sides with harmony of opposites. Night and day, heaven and hell, sin and merit, happiness and sorrow… If one of them is not, meaning of others is usually is not.

LOVE İS NOT ENOUGH, THE CONCERN MUST BE!

CİSED Secretary-General Psychologist Serap Güngör says; "Only love is not enough to close relationships. Couple is on tenterhooks each other little. Anxiety is an abnormal fear. If Person is anxiety, he/she has feeling of being bad things. Anxiety is a spice like black pepper. Absence does not give the taste, the more is not good. Couple is on tenterhooks each other little in order to be able to love and raise their passions. In other words, If you do not answer every phone, you make partner curious, you act mystical and you let partner know like a solitaire, you can give cause of apprehension. For example: When your partner asks you 'Who is with you?', you should not say 'name', you should say, 'I am with my friends' and he/she asks ' Who is it?', you should say, 'You do not know, I have to go now, bye!' so you make partner curious and this continues sexual passion. All people are interested in a mysterious person and he/she does not want to lose partner".

CURIOUS IS WELL!

CİSED Board of Directors Psychologists Kemal Özcan says; "We say that you find your spirit twin who you have looked for many years. Everything is all right. You and your partner have same thinking. If couple's likes and dislikes are the same, can you say that everything is good? In this case, there are not ideas to discuss, desire sex life, jealousy crises or a matter for concern. Therefore, curiosity is well. Because of these, uniform life's door is not a right door which is opening in an immortal marriage and a happy sexual life…"