PERIOD OF PREGNANCY CAN NEGATIVE AFFECT THE PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT OF CHILD!

Emotional development of an unborn baby is more important subject that the meaning and importance of parent (especially motherhood) deepen. The baby's feelings have been taken into account in mother's womb by means of "Prenatal psychology". Now, people know that baby in womb of mother has an active emotional life which is responsive but unconscious in the six month of pregnancy or in an earlier period. Cinsel Sağlık Enstitü Derneği (CİSED) sex therapists consider researches on prenatal psychology for you.

SELF-PERCEPTION BEGINS IN WOMB OF MOTHER!

CISED Honorary President Dr. Cem Keçe attracts attention that Baby in womb of mother is a human who can see, hear, learn, fell and gain experience even if baby is the primitive level and Dr. KEÇE continues, "Feelings and experiences begin in womb and then they designate to child's perception. In other words, the self-perception of child begins in womb of mother. If child learns behavioral patterns such as happy or unhappy, aggressive or overly submissive, self-confident or insecure or anxious and puts into practice, these must be only the messages about itself in womb of mother".

FEELINGS OF PREGNANT WOMEN SHOULD BE POSITIVE TO CHILD!

CİSED President of the General Psychiatry Specialist Asst. Dr. Cebrail Kısa says "The main source of child's character is mother. Whole anxiety or discomfort of mother does not reflect to child but there are some consuming feelings. These are deep and ingrained patterns of emotions. For example; If prospective mother is a deeply depression about motherhood, she is in a dilemma, she does not want to baby or she is not pleased gender of baby etc. these can wound on personality development of unborn baby. Alternatively, happy life, enthusiasm and positive expectations make a positive contribution on baby's emotional development. In a study conducted in Germany, researchers have observed 2000 women during pregnancy and childbirth and they have proved that mother' attitude is a great effect on the baby. All subjects, who are at the same economic class and the same level of education, have doctors do birth follow-up". Dr. KISA adds, "The only factor that separates them from each other is attitudes towards their babies. Consequently, mothers who are eagerly waiting to have a family and are comfortable during gestation period, become physically and emotionally more healthier during birth and after birth according as mother who do not adopt in principle their baby. Of course, this situation provides their babies are more peaceful and happiest".

PSYCHOLOGY OF PRENATAL CAUTION!

CİSED Secretary-General Psychologist Serap Güngör says "Prospective mothers should share their concerns and seek for solutions. Mother should not get cold from pregnancy through physical ailments and problems, mother should think that these problems solve shortly and baby's happiness is more important than these. Not being a good mother to baby, fear of inability to give a better future for baby and fear of birth can fill mother's mind. However, these are unnecessary that mother think these again and again. Because when mother hold her baby in her arms after birth, her ideas can completely change".

SUPPORT OF MALE IS REQUIREMENT FOR PREGNANT WIFE!

CİSED Board of Directors Psychologists Kemal Özcan says "Mother is a window to the outside Word of baby during pregnancy. Everything that affects mother, her baby is also affected. Moreover, it is more important during pregnancy that prospective mother have healthy communication with her family and her husband. She also should share her fears, concerns and problems with especially her husband. Parent should shoulder the responsibility of mother and father together. Mother's unhappiness and anxieties are one of the important factors affecting an unborn baby. Therefore, the role of father is very important for mother and baby" and Psk. ÖZCAN continues "Husband's emotional support satisfies that prospective mother feels sure of herself and so this health psychology influences to baby positively. Supporting of family and friends is also important in addition to supporting of her husband. She can easily solve some problems with them".

YOU SHOULD NOT SAY THAT BABY, DOES NOT UNDERSTAND!

CİSED General Vice President Specialist Yasemin Yıldız says "Mother's thoughts, love, rejection, or dilemmas have an important role in shaping the emotional life of baby. Confidence or lack of confidence of developing places in baby's inner and in futures, these emotions are reflected to character of baby. You should not say "Only baby, it does not understand". Therefore, if prospective mother's psychology and mental condition are normal or above normal, mother can have a comfortable pregnancy and she can also positively affect to baby's state of mind after birth".