The Seven Deadly Sex Sins of Women

CİSED HONORARY PRESİDENT DR. CEM KEÇE: " HUMAN INHERENTLY COMMITS 'MISTAKES' WHICH IS CALLED 'THE DEADLY SEX' IN RELATIONS".

One of the most considered facts is male-female relations since human existence. Human inherently commits "mistakes" which is called "the deadly sex" in relations. Realistically, everybody makes mistakes but person wants someone to say you should not do. Because, there are things that might undermine relations and human is not perfect alive. Alternatively, men and women have two different life and if they make one, they add up to a mixture of hazardous. Inevitablly, this mixture brings out the deadly sins of relationships. There are certainly things which must not be in human sex life. I will say now, mistakes, which are very important that women do, every relationship can wear down in the length of time and even causing the collapse of the relationship. Look! Cinsel Sağlık Enstitüsü Derneği (CİSED), sexual therapists can tell "The seven deadly sex sins of women":

PLAY IN THE HOLY MOTHER!

CİSED Honorary President Dr. Cem Keçe says, "Motherhood is certainty a sacred factual. Today, you look at which community, the identity of motherhood has an un-sexuality. However, women should give up the identity of women out of the door of bedrooms. Because, they are women who husbands are in love and desire before marriage. This point of view is the most solid fundation of marriage. When women mix up the identity of motherhood and darling, it is as if fundamental is hit with a big hammer. On this account, women must be female before, then they can be mother in their marriages. Femininity should not be lost in motherhood".

TO DO AN IMITATION OF AN ORGASM!

CİSED President of the General Psychiatry Specialist Doç. Dr. Cebrail Kısa says "Firt and foremost is that you need to know; at the and of each sexual intercourse is not required orgasm. Women should put aside this "sexual myths", in other words "superstition". Add to that, doing an imitation of an orgasm that is an attitude is not wantted by all of men. Women think that they do a good turn to men,when women do like this in order that men do not lose their self-esteem. Maybe, at first time, men may not notice a face orgasm but after they learn, they begin thinking that their partners do an imitation of orgasm or not. This situation can cause "performance anxiety" that means fear fails. Women must be honest instead of doing an imitation of orgasm. Because honesty and sincerity are the most important thing for relationship." and adds "Moreover, sexuality is not a process that occurred only orgasm and must necessarily result in orgasm. At the and of sexuality, couples have emotional sharing and moments of pleasure. Initially, small disappointments are not undertaken, they can lead to deeper disappointment later and couples are moved to a point of no return".

STRUGGLE FOR THE MYSTERY AND PASSION IN RELATIONSHIP

CİSED Honorary President Dr. Cem Keçe explains that One of the biggest mistakes are made by women is that they feel their partners like the closest girl friend. Many women begin to share everything with men prolonged period of time of relationship. However, women should have a separate world of men. Dr. KEÇE says "A number of feminine issues, which they only speak with girl friends, must not be talked with men. There must be the mysteries of women and men. Mystery feeds passion, passion also provides continuity of sexual passion. Passion is a strong excitement that passes will and jurisdictions. It is also described desire, aim and strong interesting. Moreover, passion is a strong aptitude that holds the whip hand to think, hear and request and it is a long-term and permanent emotion. When woman does not struggle for passion and love in their relationship, couple's expectations of sexual may be reduced in the length of time and relations may be an undesirable paint." and adds "On this account women' own privacy should not be shared with men in order to continue the desire of couples each other".

HUMILATE THE EROTICSM OF MAN

CİSED Secretary-General Psychologist Serap Güngör says that Men love eroticism and women love romance" is practically an universal rule. Eroticism generally includes love games, erotic movies and porns. Firstly, women should accept this situation. women try to understand, share and bear their partners company instead of judging or insulting eroticism of her partners and Serap Güngör continues " Their bedrooms can colar If women can see eroticism ,which is like a subject, can be discussed or women is breadth when their partners offer to watch erotic movie together . Furthermore, women should not silent during sexual intercourse because men need hearing erotic voices and seeing erotic behaviors by its nature in order to receive more sexual stimulation ".

FIND DAULT IN HER OWN BODY

CİSED President of the General Psychiatry Specialist Doç. Dr. Cebrail Kısa says "It is more important that women like themselves for both women and partners's satisfying in their sexual lives. Because anybody ,who does not love her/hisself, does not really love anyone else, anybody, who does not value her/hisself, does not really value others. " and Doç. Dr. Kısa continues "Every woman is beautiful. It does not matter short or long, whether fat or to thin. Therefore,women should desire their partners in the daytime or turn on the light. They should wander their underwear. That is to say, they firstly flirt with their bodies. Moreover, every person wants to be loved, be notice and be considered important by others. Men want their partners to look at themselves, not only the behavior of their partners. In the evenings, men imagine that their partners meet them with beautiful dresses, smell nice and prepare small surprises. So women should act to partners carefully bacause it is an indication of value of their relationships and themselves".

USING SEX FOR A PURPOSE

"Sexuality is science and art that can give and take pleasure in, can share body and soul and whatever orgasm although person is relieved and relaxed, focusing on love and touching" is explained by CİSED General Vice President Specialist Yasemin Yıldız and continues " Men and women should offer their bodies to each other as a gift. the quality of relationship deteriorates through sexuality is used for private ends except for sharing the body and spirit. Moreover, sexuality and daily life should be separated from each other. The greatest gains can be achieved in bed are shareing the beautiful moments with partners. Bacause, trying to get more love with sexuality will ruin the innocence of relationship".

BEING OBSESSED WITH THE SIZE OF THE PENIS

"From past to present, person misperceive that penis size is an indicator of masculinity and it turn into obsession for men so many couples life has become unbearable" is explained by CİSED Board of Directors Psychologists Kemal Özcan and continues " However, couples can focus on the plasure of touch, real on each other, talk friendly and openly, loveeach other unconditionally, respect each other and show affection to each other in order that couples live more satisfying their sex lives . Because, function of penis is important not be long. There are not a direct relation between penis size and sexual performance. The most fuction of penis make pregnant, other fuction is to satisfy the sexual instinct. These depend on useing adequate number of sperms and fuctions, being able to take control of ejaculation, continuing erection enough and on time ". Kemal Özcan also says "Furthermore, vagina a tubuler organ which is approximately 10 cm in length. The most part taken enjoyment of the vagina is the third part of close out. According to studies, there are neural connections between the part of this 3-4 cm is the entrance and the clitoris. Therefore, vagina is not the center of sexual pleasure for women. The penis needs too long for stimulation of the clitoris. There is "vajinal orgasm" or "indirect clitoral orgasm" that women learn later, except for "direct clitoris" that women learn with masturbation. "Vaginal orgasm" is event that begins in woman's brain and cover the whole body. In other words, mental orgasm affects bodily orgasm".